Where do you find yourself? What is before you? (i.e., your workload, your finances, your deadlines, your relationships, your health, etc.) How do you feel? Do any of the above trigger any “stressed-out” feelings in you? (anxiety, fear, ill-ease, etc.) If so, you’ve lost self-control. When you (me) find yourself responding (emotionally, psychologically, physiologically, etc.) in ways you’d rather not, you’ve lost self-control. I’m not talking about self-control in the sense of externally self-imposed behaviors (to abide within the laws of society), but in how you find yourself feeling (reacting) based on a stimulus of an external circumstance. I’m also not talking about “control” as when in a fear-based (needing […]